Having The Talk

Having The Talk Which talk am I talking about? Well really there are two the talk to get into a relationship and the talk to get out of a relationship. Both talks are awkward, difficult, could potentially blow up in your face, and are completely necessary. For any relationship to progress, the talk must be had. So how do you handle such difficult and relationship-altering conversations? The only way-    in person. Like  most people my age, Im an avid texter and have lost basic communication skills due to the digital crutch. And as much as I want to hide this difficult subject underneath some subtle text message lingo, there is no way to get around an in person conversation for this one. To have the talk, youve got to be able to read the others face. Say youre head over heels about a guy and want to go steady with him- if you tell him this in person and he makes a face like he just saw a ghost, probably not a good sign. Same goes for the break-up talk. You arent feeling the relationship anymore and need to call it off- dont you want to see the look of pain in the others face?? Okay- that is really mean of me and not true (ish) But the other does deserves the decency of hearing it from you in person. Ive done the talk in all different ways- text, phone, mid-makeout session, skywriting (I wish). The only way to make it as clear as day and to make sure that you both are totally on the same page is in person. So as much as it may hurt, or make you feel awkward, or in my case- make you feel like you are about to throw up under water, it must be done. And done in person. After the fact, whichever path the relationship might take, youll know you started the next step of your journey on the right foot. So what do you think? Do you have any tips for having the talk? Lets have ourselves our own  talk. Happy Thursday yall! And if you have any ideas for an upcoming column, let me know!